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Make Peace

Peace is not about winning a war. Nor is it about avoiding war. It’s not about freeing the oppressed, nor ignoring the Oppressed’s cries for help. Those things, while noble in effort, are not “Peace.” Peace is a frame of mind. It is a way of life. It has its own rules that must be …

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Active Optimism

A Pessimist walks into the barn, steps in manure and says “There goes a good pair of boots!” An Optimist walks into the barn, steps in manure and says “Where’s the pony?” The same events happen to all people – good, bad and indifferent. People just don’t realize how much they shape their own experience. …

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Move On

Persistence, tenacity, determination are all admirable traits. Certainly no one wants to be a “quitter” yet there are times when sticking around is not the answer. Sometimes the most proactive thing you can do is to just stop what you’re doing and move on to something else. Most people can tell when things aren’t working …

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Letting Go

Arghhhhh…. !!!!! You ever have one of those days that you just wish you could be left alone? That you didn’t have so much you had to do? That you didn’t have to be YOU? Well, you can… without changing anything outside yourself… without changing anything you do. “Impossible!” you say? No, but it won’t …

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The Best Policy

Now be honest with yourself…. Do you think you’re honest? Do you think other people are? Do you really think that honesty is the best policy? Do you really want others to be honest? Can you handle the truth? Well, to be honest with you… I don’t have the answers to that. I have MY …

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